Embracing Transformation and Owning Your Perspective
Recently, I listened to an episode of Serendipity with Inky Johnson, and the topics discussed resonated deeply with me. Inky and his co-host touched on themes of transformation and the distinction between perspective and perception. Their insights were not only thought-provoking but also profoundly relevant to my own experiences and journey.
The Pain of Transformation
One of the key points they discussed was how transformation can often be painful. According to Inky, the challenges and problems we encounter are not random; they are tailored specifically for us by God to shape us into who we are meant to be. This perspective reminded me of the saying, "No pain, no gain." Just as physical exercise stresses our muscles to strengthen them, life's challenges serve to strengthen our character and resolve.
Reflecting on my childhood, I realize how my adverse experiences have shaped me. Growing up in a low-income family with an absent father and a mother struggling with addiction, I faced many difficulties. However, these experiences prepared me for the person I am today. They ignited my passion and drive to help youth facing similar situations.
Rather than running from the pain of my past, I embrace it. I understand that pain is not something to avoid but something to confront and grow from. It's in these painful moments that we build strength and resilience. The hardships of my younger years laid the foundation for me to become the founder of Leaders in Training. God gave me these challenges because He knew they were essential for my mission to help youth break the cycles of generational curses. My testimony is a tool to inspire and support others in their journeys.
Perspective vs. Perception
Another powerful topic Inky discussed was the difference between perspective and perception. Perspective is how you see the world—your unique viewpoint shaped by your experiences and beliefs. Perception, on the other hand, is how others see you. If you let perception dictate your life, you'll be confined to living according to others' expectations, never reaching your full potential.
This concept resonated with me deeply. I choose to see my life as a series of blessings, even in the challenges. God knew I needed to go through my early hardships to be prepared for the path ahead. My vision for Leaders in Training is to create a nationally recognized youth development center that empowers youth and those who serve them to excel. My past experiences could have been used as excuses, but instead, I use them as fuel to help children who face similar challenges.
I refuse to be confined by the negative perceptions often associated with black males from low-income neighborhoods. Society may expect us to become statistics, but I choose a different path. I use my experiences to defy these stereotypes and encourage others to do the same. My journey is a testament to the power of perspective over perception.
In conclusion, the insights from Inky Johnson’s podcast serve as a powerful reminder to embrace the pain of transformation and to own our perspective. By doing so, we can transcend societal perceptions and achieve our true potential. I hope my story inspires you to confront your own challenges and use them as a catalyst for growth and empowerment.
Scottie T. Jackson, MPH
